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[june72]

I agree! We love to hear the updates!

[babygirlnancy]

Hey everyone..there isnt to much more..i was just talking to my mom and she was saying that everything is ok with my dad just that he seems tried alot more then usally i got..they have been trying to get hold of the doc but hes not answering...I hope its notthing to big but ill pray for him tonight whenever i go to bed..GOD BLESS

[june72]

continued prayers for him

[katlnhats]

Hi Nancy,
You and your Dad and family are in our prayers - let us know when you get a chance how he makes out.

Kat

[babygirlnancy]

So more aboyut my dad well they said he lost weight,Which is a good thing.He cant NEVER EVER go back to his job:S On tuesday he has to go for lots of blood work,mom says its just a check up.Im scared I dont want bad news,I cant handle bad news.I love my dada and i dont want to see him gone.He has more a life down here...

So Im asking PLEASE EVERYNIGHT FROM NOW TILL WE GET THE BLOOD WORK BACK TO PRAY FOR MY DAD AND MAKE SURE EVERTHING COMES BACK GREAT..please...my dads time is here on earth with his wife,kids,grandkids and rest of his family.SO PLEASE PRAY>..IM So scared right now..I hate this,i just want everthing to come back good...


Thanks Everyone THanks you so Much for being with me threw this bad time.Ill never forget you guys EVER...

[misothere]

Praying everything comes out well with the blood work.

[babygirlnancy]

Hey everyone its me again.Im sad right now.I think its more scared,My dad goes for his blood work tomorrow,Im just so scared that they will find something.I dont wanna lose my dad.He has more to him to come..He has family here..I hope everyone is praying>..I also have a question.K since my dads stroke.I cant get over it,I cry every time i think about it,its always on my mind,how come it bugs me more then anyone else in my family.I just wish it would get out of my mind.I wanna dont wanna think about it anymore.I wanna try to tthink about good times and more times to come without crying.


PLEASE REMEMBER TO PRAY>>WE NEED A THE PRAY WE CAN GET

[misothere]

You said your dad lost weight which is a good thing, so perhaps that will help the blood work come out better. My dad had a stroke & started small changes in his life like diet & exercise & less stress & he's still here to love us.

Each person's emotional level is different & crying is a release that should not be bottled up which can be unhealthy. But if your having an extremely rough time maybe speaking with a close family member, friend or clergy, or professional will help release some fears you have & make you feel better just having someone listen.

[june72]

Nancy......hang in there! Try not to think of the what if's! Lay it at Jesus's feet and leave your worries there, he will take care of them. I know its hard, belive me I know. Sometimes are cross gets heavy and we need others to help us carry it! Please feel free to pm/email me anytime you need to talk! Your dad, you and the rest of your family is in my prayers! We serve a mighty God and he is still in the healing business today!

[katlnhats]

Nancy,
Our prayers are with you and your Dad for his bloodwork to come out great. Since he's been home and lost some weight, the bloodwork which is I'd guess, routine, may just come out better than it's been!
The crying? You've been and are still going through a lot; crying is one way of "getting it out". If you're depressed, you might want to check into seeing a counselor, I can tell from personal experience that they help so much.

Keep us updated, we CARE.
Gentle Hugs,

Marilyn

[babygirlnancy]

Hey ya im not sure if this is a route thing for my dad or not cuz this is the firrst time he went to get blood work done.Were just waiting for the test to come back....
And about the crying its been going on every since dad went in hospital,if i see something on tv htat reminds me about my dad and us almost losin him i cry.not sure how my family is taking it good but im not...Maybe its because im scared to lose a loved one.I only lost one in my life that i can really remember...

[misothere]

Prayer's that your dad's blood work is okay.

[babygirlnancy]

Hey everyone.So my dad test didnt come back yet.BUt saturday night(lastnight) he went into the hospital cuz his back was really sore it was like that for a few days but he just keep going but i guess lastnight he called my brother to take him there because he couldnt take it anymore.They kept him lastnight and done some test.And I think mom said it was something like he disk location his Back,I could be wrong thro,Neways so they let me go home today hes still in pain:S:S they did more test and mom said he has to get his Bone Marrow test done?????but he wasnt a stroke.Should I be sscared,should i worried.When he came home tonight he was getting sick but mom said that could be because he didnt eat..Please if anyone could help me let me know..Im scared.Im always scared..

[katlnhats]

Hi Nancy,
My prayers are still with you and your Dad and your whole family. It's good that he didn't have a stroke and as for the tests - it's been a little while since he's had the stroke, so it could be that they're just checking everything. Better to make sure he's ok than not, you know?
You poor thing, you sound terrified and that also, can have you crying all the time - it's a hard thing to go through to see someone we love so much (like you and your Dad) go through anything and be OK afterwards.
When my Dad had heart surgery, I was scared for quite awhile too. I think it's normal when you love someone. Try to calm down, and if it gets too bad for you, we're here -- always for you. My regular email address is on here too, if you want to email me. Anytime.
For a lot of people, crying helps. If it's not helping, it could be fear or depression and I'm no Dr. but if you've got a good family Dr., that you can talk to, it might not be a bad idea. Just a thought.
Please, keep us updated, we're here for you and we do care!
Gentle Hugs,
Marilyn

[misothere]

Nancy,

"Ditto" on all that (Kat) Marilyn said!

Chin up girl,
Luv,
L