Guy troubles

[Rebekahj]

HI so heres my dilema..... well I've known thisa guy my whole life (I'm 23)
and I see him every week but we never talk, we were best friends until he moved away. but then he moved back and we had a good nite out and then nothin for a whole year! so my question is is he not talking to me becasue he thinks i like him>? (which I do) or does he just think I'm a loser because i've been trying to talk to him and he keeps blowing me off? I need help I dont know if you can put this kind of thread on here but in desprate! please everyone HELP ME

[highvoltage]

i just say give it sometime, give him some space and then see how it will go.

[Kegrilovessmu]

I think she said she gave him space for a year? Anyways, just confront him. Ask him if there is a reason he has been avoiding you. Maybe he just doesn't feel the friend connection anymore. Or maybe he likes you too, and he feels awkward about it since you started as friends. Either way, you have to just ask him or else you'll never know. Life is too short to try to play games to try to figure it out. Hopefully he'll appreciate you being direct as well =) Good luck.

[iluvcoupons]

I'm sorry things aren't going the way you would probrably want things to go but a year is long enough in my opinion to wait for someone.

[jezzie]

Originally Posted by Rebekahj

HI so heres my dilema..... well I've known thisa guy my whole life (I'm 23)
and I see him every week but we never talk, we were best friends until he moved away. but then he moved back and we had a good nite out and then nothin for a whole year! so my question is is he not talking to me becasue he thinks i like him>? (which I do) or does he just think I'm a loser because i've been trying to talk to him and he keeps blowing me off? I need help I dont know if you can put this kind of thread on here but in desprate! please everyone HELP ME

Hi....
My thoughts are that you should let him approach you. Just sit tight and wait. If he is interested he'll come around, Jezzie

[PT109]

Tell him you like to save money (guys like it when they know you won't be a drag on the wallet). Then secretly take golf lessons. Casually mention that you should play golf together, duff the first few holes, then pour it on!

[Rebekahj]

well the other day he talk to my SISTER I dont get it then he doesnt talk to me at all. He said hi to me the other day but thats it! it sucks being me today thanks 4 the sugestions tho I need all the help I can get

[Kegrilovessmu]

Is he a shy guy? If not, then I'm sorry to say it sounds like he's not interested in you. If he knows you like him, then he's probably keeping his distance. If he is shy, then you have to just ask him! Or if you're desperate, have your sister talk to him.

[Rebekahj]

Well he can be shy (like he has his other friends call someone I am talking to so he doesn't have to say somethin in front of me) But it's fine I've decided to just let him go and find another guy I mean there are plenty of guys out there and he is obviously not intrested so I'll just find someone new. Thanks for all your help anybody know any hot nice guys? LOL

Rebekah.

[Kegrilovessmu]

That's the spirit! Life is too short to wait around and play games like that anyways! Where do you live? I know one guy who's single... You should check out Yuwie and find Almoonir... Weird name, but he's frickin HOT! I like to visit his site randomly to check out his pic. It's probably really some skinny kid with a fake pic though, lol. I met my hubby through a friend/co-worker... Ask around and find out if any of your buddies know anyone. =)

[Rebekahj]

I think I will! I mean why wait around for somebody who has had the option to be with me for such along time? Actually I know a guy who is one of my sisters friends who likes me so I'm going to talk to him Thanks for all your help!

Rebekah

[lagirl4music]

leave him hunny you dont need him