I JUST read the description of the "debate" forum:
Like a good debate? Come on in! Respect is expected
* Warning: Enter at your own risk... Debates do get very heated and adult language is used.
Hmmmm....respect isn't expected by a certain number of people and there is no chance of EARNING it either.
I've made the decision that the place isn't for me either. I like when ppl. don't tip-toe stating their own opinion, but re-reading the PM by one of the owners telling me to "shut the F up" because I defended another member...has FINALLY made me realize...I don't have to LAUGH about it and think it's just internet BS. I'm ALLOWED to be ticked off

I hope more ppl. DO follow this link from the Troll Hole...and get this...I didn't plan on telling anyone where this place was, but if you'd like to see a true and HORRIBLE debate forum...where you can be called anything the owners see fit...where you can see one man easily saying women that are SAHMs should be responsible for everything AND it should all be done by the time the working spouse comes home...THEN turn around and call women the WORST of the WORST names only a small man would use when talking to a woman...well PM me

LOL!
I won't be posting or lurking there any more. That means I won't even know if I am sent to the troll hole again OR better yet...totally banned

Now let me warn ya...if you choose to post (in the debate forum), ANYTHING you say WILL be twisted and there's more than a minute chance that you'll be called a racist, lazy, etc...the list is endless. If you've never been banned from a board...you'll have a great opportunity to cross that off of your "to do list"....LOL!