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View Poll Results: Would you, or have you had an affair?
I would never do that, I love my spouse too much 10 26.32%
I would consider it if my feelings were so strong that I just couldn't bear to be apart from the other person, and that was the only choice 2 5.26%
I've had an affair, it broke up my marriage 0 0%
I'm having an affair, but I'm still married 2 5.26%
Marriage vows are sacred, I'd never do that 5 13.16%
I'd have to think about it, depending on the circumstances 3 7.89%
You must be kidding, never never never. 6 15.79%
I'd stay with my spouse and have an affair 4 10.53%
I'd feel too guilty if I had an affair 3 7.89%
Other 3 7.89%
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Old 03-31-2004, 08:14 PM
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Re: Would you have an affair?

I like your honesty too, Julie. No judgement here sweetiepie. Hopefully what you said can encourage someone else.

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Re: Would you have an affair?

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nor here...I am one of very many ppl. who haven't the right to cast even a pebble. Hugz Julie! It's tough to put it all out there, but when you can do that you definitely are not in a self pity type mode.
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Old 03-31-2004, 10:06 PM
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Re: Would you have an affair?

Now...emotionally having an ear to listen to you is another story......I consider a best friend I have as just a friend and he listens to me and helps me think things through....but I'm sure others would say it's more of an affair.
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Re: Would you have an affair?

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Now...emotionally having an ear to listen to you is another story......I consider a best friend I have as just a friend and he listens to me and helps me think things through....but I'm sure others would say it's more of an affair.
People will take and run with just about anything these days. Why can't they see that he is just a good friend? People's minds are in the gutter. I think a woman can have a male friend without that friend being anything more, I have a similar male friend, and that's all he is, a good friend. He would never even think of having an affair, he's too good of a person, besides, he knows I'm married and he respects that.
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Re: Would you have an affair?

It's just nice to get a man's opinion on it all too, especially at times where I know my dh and I can't think rationally for ourselves.
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Re: Would you have an affair?

Thanks for sharing your story Juliannaluv. I appreciate it.

You know, ever since I had my son 18 months ago and quit my job I am not the same person I used to be. I am not around other men very much anymore and I miss that. My one night out is Thursdays when I am in a bowling league. Sometimes, especially when alcohol is involved, I think my inhibitions drop and other guys start looking good to me. Maybe I need some more changes in my life. I don't know.
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It's just nice to get a man's opinion on it all too, especially at times where I know my dh and I can't think rationally for ourselves.

Keep the zipper up and the heart rate down!
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Re: Would you have an affair?

So you are saying this is acceptable Telos?? But just to mind the manners right??!!!
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Re: Would you have an affair?

I was just trying to be funny!

If it doesn't bother hubby, then why not?
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