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Old 03-23-2003, 09:09 PM
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Unhappy Having a bad bad day please tell me its normal
I having a bad day.............

I am sad and my heart hurts bad


Tell me pleasee I am ok

Tonit now just a bit ago it hit me bad ...

I miss my granma so much and my nana.,,,

11 monts apart and it hit me ....It hurts I am so sad
.....

So much going on and I try to get on but I cant ...I hurt everyday...

I lost them so close together........
I just dont know why ..

Please dont think I am crazy I just dont know what to do no more
... I constantly dream of both my granma and my nana and I think of them all day everyday Somedays I am ok but I just dont know what to feel anymore.......


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Old 03-23-2003, 09:29 PM
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Old 03-23-2003, 09:31 PM
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Go to the Dr...get some meds...when my godson Matt died that finally did it for me, I went and was put on Paxil for a few months...did wonders and now I am off of it and fine.
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Old 03-23-2003, 09:41 PM
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Well I went to the dr.

I lost my grandma in Feb...2002

In March I got on Paxil

Paxil and I have been doing great....

In Jan.... 2003 I lost my nana (my moms mom)

Very sudden...

Most days I am ok.
Just somedays it hits me bad.
Today was a bad day.

I guess I keep askeing the same question alot of people do.
Why when I loved you so much did you leave.??
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You know, I believe that every person only has so many steps in this life. No one leave because they want to.
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Well I went to the dr.

I lost my grandma in Feb...2002

In March I got on Paxil

Paxil and I have been doing great....

In Jan.... 2003 I lost my nana (my moms mom)

Very sudden...

Most days I am ok.
Just somedays it hits me bad.
Today was a bad day.

I guess I keep askeing the same question alot of people do.
Why when I loved you so much did you leave.??
Just remember hmsram, one day at a time. Take a deep breath and know that there will be good days and bad days.

The good news is tomorrow is another day... Perhaps it will be much better than the last!
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Old 03-24-2003, 08:25 AM
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Take it one day at a time, that's all any of us can do sweetie!
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There are good days and there are low days...I always try to think what the person I am missing would say...? Especially your Grandma and Nana, I'm sure they had some great words of wisdom! It's hard to miss them, I'm sure, but what a blessing it was to have them in your life, right? Hugs!
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I'm sorry for your loss. We lost Gramps (DH's bio Grandfather) last month and...well it sucks. Altho Grandma misses him terribly, we all thought she would improve health-wise herself since she had less responsibility..not true. Her heart is now only functioning at 20%..the meds MAY increase that to about 30%, but we're not holding our breath. I can't help, but wonder if she has gotten worse BECAUSE of Gramps passing..I certainly understand tho, we hurt so badly, I can't imagine what the feeling is like for her.
Hang in there hmsram, it HAS to get better...I mean, there will always be an "ache", just not so intense as each day passes. I am SO very thankful I was able to be a part of his life for the past 8 years.


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Old 03-24-2003, 08:44 PM
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Yes, it is normal to feel at a loss.
Sure the meds help(they helped me cope with lossing Elf)
A friend told me to think of those dreams of a loved one lost as kisses from them to let me know they still love me.Please if you need any of us just let us know.If the meds are not helping you may need them adjusted( I had to change meds and when I took them for the best results).I am lucky in that with meds I could heal so much that I do not need them anymore.I still get down once in awhile but can bounce back now.
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Re: Having a bad bad day please tell me its normal
i just lost my nana last week
i cry nearly everyday im only 14 and dont no what to do please some one get back to me i need ur help.....
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Re: Having a bad bad day please tell me its normal
Emily, I'm so sorry about your loss. But you know your nana loved you and you were probably one of the greatest joys in her life. If you believe in life after death (Heaven), then know that she still loves you and wants you to have a good and happy life.

It's only been a few days, so it's natural to feel the way you do. So just go ahead and cry and let some of the sadness out. Then try to think of some of the good things you both did together. And remember this, as it's very important; you WILL start to feel a little bit better in the next few weeks. Gradually, you will think of your nana with a pang of sadness, but also with a smile for the wonderful memories you have of her. She will live on inside of you, inside of your cells and inside of your memories. So do what would make her happy; do your best in life, and be happy.
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Old 07-14-2006, 09:42 PM
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Paxil sometimes, can really make you loopy. Have weird dreams, etc. I hope you feel better, worried about you. Just come here and vent and we will cheer you up. We are all family after all. My mom lost 2 brothers and her sister within a year. 2 Were not even expected. It is hard to deal with death, I certainly can't. Hope you feel better tonight, Hugs )))
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