Having a bad bad day please tell me its normal

[katlnhats]

Hi Emily,

It's so hard when we lose people we love so much. Your loss is so recent, it's even harder. I'm so sorry and wish I could just "make it all right" for you. I know I can't do that, but I can be here for you. If you need to, send me a pm (private message, just click on my user name), and I'll reply to you.
Sure wish I could do more. Take one day at a time; it does get easier, just not right away.
You will be in my prayers, and that never hurts. We'll help you get through this the best we can. Don't be afraid to come on in and post here-- LOTS of people care.

(((Gentle Hugs)))
Kat
</3]i just lost my nana last week
i cry nearly everyday im only 14 and dont no what to do please some one get back to me i need ur help.....[/QUOTE

[katlnhats]

Hi Mouse,

I'm so sorry for both your recent loss and your Grandma doing so poorly. This has got to be so hard for you and yet, here you are on here doing your best to help someone else feel better. What a good person you are.
Please keep us updated on your Grandma.
((((Gentle Hugs))))

Kat

Originally Posted by Mouse7088

I'm sorry for your loss. We lost Gramps (DH's bio Grandfather) last month and...well it sucks. Altho Grandma misses him terribly, we all thought she would improve health-wise herself since she had less responsibility..not true. Her heart is now only functioning at 20%..the meds MAY increase that to about 30%, but we're not holding our breath. I can't help, but wonder if she has gotten worse BECAUSE of Gramps passing..I certainly understand tho, we hurt so badly, I can't imagine what the feeling is like for her.
Hang in there hmsram, it HAS to get better...I mean, there will always be an "ache", just not so intense as each day passes. I am SO very thankful I was able to be a part of his life for the past 8 years.


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[katlnhats]

Hi,
The best I can do is try to "be" here for you and that goes without saying. I'm sorry for your losses. And it's true, some days will be better than others. Sounds like you had a really bad one Everyone here cares - so when you feel sad, and yes, it's normal - your whole world has changed, please just come in and post and lots of us will be here for you.
It's possible the Paxil has to be adjusted. You may want to talk to your Dr. about it and see what he/she say says.
In the meantime, you're in my prayers, hang in there, believe it or not (and you probably don't right now), but the hurt does ease little by little and the wonderful memories come back.
(((Gentle Hugs)))
Kat

Originally Posted by hmsram

Well I went to the dr.

I lost my grandma in Feb...2002

In March I got on Paxil

Paxil and I have been doing great....

In Jan.... 2003 I lost my nana (my moms mom)

Very sudden...

Most days I am ok.
Just somedays it hits me bad.
Today was a bad day.

I guess I keep askeing the same question alot of people do.
Why when I loved you so much did you leave.??

Bless your heart, I am still praying. I hope you get up tomorrow, take a breath and just know that it will be another day. And a better one