The only places I feel are not safe for Credit cards are XXX web sites. If you stay away, I see no problem with using your card for shopping, as long as it is a secured site. My advice is to have a low limit card like $200 so that if ever there was a problem, there would not be a lot that someone can charge. A $200 balance is also fairly easy to pay off if you need to.
If you really feel uneasy, some sites -like BN have it where you place your order and then you call in your CC info. I have done that to send gifts under my husbands name with my credit card.
[This message has been edited by ftmom (edited 10-09-2000).]