Hi,
It's good to see you here and I know what you posted isn't all of it. We'll all be here praying for you and what's going on isn't right. There is another place to look for things (free) online other than Craigslist, it's
www.freecycle.com? or org?, shoot, someone feel free to correct me on this one, but I know it's all free and our son recently got a working clothes dryer for the house that he shares with roommates - that's a good free thing!
Another friend got a free running car and it's in all areas, so you'll find things -I don't know anything wrong with getting things used - there is nothing wrong with that, the wrong is in the throwing out of perfectly good things - for cleaning, other than bleach, you can use full strength white vinegar, the smell will air out and there's no chemicals.
I will be praying for you and your safety on here. What's been happening isn't right and you've been doing the best you can with a very, VERY difficult situation.
Hugs,
Marilyn/Katlnhats