[misothere]

Welcome,

1st.: - Prayers that things work out in the best way for everyone involved, which I do know is hard.

2nd: If you really believe you have E-Mail threats, you can go to the police - but they may need to take your computer to research your hard drive etc...(I know from my daughter's threats after repeated violations of a former boyfriends restraining order).

3rd: I go to yard & church sales & flea markets for things including toys & make sure to CLEAN THEM WELL. Use bleach water solution when you can! (I'd probably stay away from any toy that goes in water if you can't totally take apart - due to unseen mold)! This year I bought used books at our Library Sale for Christmas gifts & sprayed a couple paper towels with Linen Fresh Lysol & wiped outside, then sprayed more paper towels & put them & books & them in a tightly sealed plastic bag for a week, then aired them out. (Not sure if it totally helps, but better than nothing.) Stuffed animals - I'd stay away from!

4th: Any adult has the RIGHT to stick up for themselves! If they want to see or call thier relatives - they should! IF they are "allowing or putting up with" somebody else controlling that aspect of thier life - I PRAY FOR THEM!