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I just wanted to add something else. I'm pretty laid back with my kids, too and I think it is a positive thing. Granted they aren't very old, but I credit their easy-going personalities to the fact that DH and I aren't the type to fly off the handle with every bump and bruise. My doctor has often commented that the way a parent interacts with their kids has a huge impact on how they act in turn.

I'd also have to say that your SIL probably has good intentions, but she may be setting your nephew up for major issues in the future. Being too restrictive in a child's diet often backfires because when they finally get a taste of the forbidden foods at a friends house or school, they often go overboard and don't have any self-control. It's better to set limits on these foods at home that are within reason and then they will know what is acceptable away from home. I know everyone has an opinion, but I think juice is a necessary part of a growing child's diet. It offers a lot of nutrients, provided you pick the right kinds. Obviously you don't want them drinking it all day long, but a little here and there is not an issue.