I remember the promo, though I didn't send for it. Glad to hear you received the package!
Good things happen to good people. You posted about your sis and her engagement not to gossip, but to ask for info. I think it's wrong of the family to not speak to you and I'm sorry they're behaving that way.
Hopefully they'll soon realize you had good intentions.
good luck with your doctor's appointment. I'll keep you in my thoughts.